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DEVICES 9 #AIIB4 ,R ?AN PU%+ ISSUES RELAT$ 6D1F;S 6! SIDE 9 MY LIFE1 ,I H N[ GIV5 !M A C5TRAL ROLE4 ,I FEEL DRIV5 6"U/& D1F;S BETT]1 & 6EXPLA9 X 6O!RS4 ,? -PUL.N HAS PUT ANO!R /RA9 ON \R M>RIAGE4 ,I H JO9$ ! /AFF (A J\RNAL D1L+ ) CO*LE> IMPLANTS1 ,I H HELP$ 6=M A CO*LE> IMPLANT SUPPORT GR\P 9 ,CANADA1 ,I H CORRESPOND$ OV] ! ,9T]NET ) LIT],Y HUNDR$S ( P :O >E D1F1 ,I H ATT5D$ 3F];ES ON D1F;S1 ,I H SP5T OV] A YE> RESE>*+ & WRIT+ ? BOOK4 ,X IS Z IF ,I AM TRY+ 6MAKE UP =A LIFE"T ( D5IAL4 ,P :O WE> CO*LE> IMPLANTS NE$ SUPPORT GR\PS1 B S TOO MAY _! "PN]S4 ,! EXCITE;T ( GETT+ AN IMPLANT &! EXCITE;T OV] ! *ANGES 9 ! D1F P]SON'S LIFE >E R1DILY AC"KL$G$4 ,B :AT (! EXCITE;T & *ANGES 9 ! LIFE (! "PN]8 ,:5 ,BOB HELP$ 6ORGANIZE A 4CUS.N GR\P = HE>+ SP\SES AT ! #AIIG 3V5;N ( ,CO*LE> ,IMPLANT ,CLUB ,9T]N,NAL 9 ,MASSA*USETTS1 HE F.D T A RECURR+ -PLA9T (! "PICIPANTS 0 T !Y FELT ISOLAT$ F ^? :O 7 MO/ LIKELY 6"U/& _! FEEL+S & NE$S4 ,!Y FELT L"OLY4 ,!Y WANT$ "S AC"KL$G;T (! /RA9S ON _! [N LIVES &! *ALL5GES T BO? D1F;S & HE>+ ) AN IMPLANT PRES5T$ 6!M4 ,_M1 L ,BOB1 PLAY ! ROLE ( BO? COA* & *E]L1D] = _! SP\SES AF ! SURG]Y1 5C\RAG+ !M 9 _! TASK ( LE>N+ 6HE>1 & *E]+ _! SU3ESSES4 ,B FEW >E A# 6TALK ) O!RS 9 _! SITU,N & GET ! ADVICE OR SUPPORT !Y MAY NE$4 ,_M (! PRO#MS T 7 VOIC$ AT T ALL-TOO- %ORT "W%OP H9T$ AT MAJOR PRO#MS 9 ! M>RIAGES 2T HE>+ P & D1F P ) CO*LE> IMPLANTS4 ,:5 ! HE>+ SP\SE SAYS %E IS HAV+ TR\# GETT+ H] HUSB& 6WE> 8 PROCESSOR ALL ! "T1 :AT L>G] PRO#M IS T SMALL "O HID+8 ,IS ! D1F;S A PRO#M = H] T %E IS PL1D+ ) H] HUSB& 6D "S?+ AB8 ,IS ! HUSB& /U2ORNLY RESI/+ LE>N+ 6HE>1 N WANT+ 62COME LESS DEP5D5T ON H]8 ,IS HE /RU7L+ ) :AT HE IS HE>+1 & UNA# 6ASK = HELP F 8 AUDIOLOGI/8 ,I C ONLY GUESS1 & HOPE T !Y & ALL ! O!R FAMILIES 9 NE$ F9D SUPPORT4 ,AL? ,BOB & ,NIC & ,I 3T9UE 6/RU7LE )! E6ECTS ( D1F;S1 \R LOVE & 5JOY;T ( "O ANO!R TRANSC5DS ! DI6ICULTIES1 & \R S5SITIV;Y 6:AT WE EA* >E FEEL+ HELPS U "? ! R\< PAT*ES4 ,"O (! ?+S T WD H HELP$ 9 ? /RU7LE1 & T ,I LACK$ 9 ! 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